Hiatus
It has been quite a while since I’ve worked now. I was going to dive in as soon as classes let out, but I got really sick and couldn’t. And then after that got better, I got really sick again.
I still have approximately three weeks to make money before my one month “vacation,” but now I have another problem. Lauren, who’s apartment I have been using for my incalls, has to limit the appointments there because she has a new nosy neighbor. I can have one appointment there per day, if I can even have one at all. And clients don’t really like scheduling outcalls…
I suppose I have plenty of time to make money once I get back, but I’m going to buy a car during my vacation, so I wanted to make a lot of money before then, you know? Hopefully this will all be easier once I can drive myself around.
I am considering renting and furnishing a separate apartment exclusively for work, like Lauren does, but I’m not sure I’m willing to make the investment that would require. I don’t exactly do this full time, I average about $1000 per month. What say you? Should I just stick to outcalls, or get a second place and work that much harder?
Every so often I will get fed up with this country and start researching the customs and laws of...
Every so often I will get fed up with this country and start researching the customs and laws of other nations, entertaining the thought of emigrating. To Swizerland, the Netherlands, Canada…. Someplace where prostitution is legal and drugs are decriminalized. Someplace with a better education system than the US, and at least some interest in spacefaring.
And then after hours of research, I will delete my word document containing all the information I’ve found, because who am I kidding? I don’t have the balls to do something like that.
Update
I have had two appointments since my spring break. I can’t recall the more recent one very well, sorry. It’s getting harder to provide unique descriptions of my encounters because I feel they end up being quite similar. I suppose the earlier one was somewhat memorable, he was a charming young Indian gentleman who was rather cute and had some really interesting stories.
I am trying to make a couple appointments for this weekend but Lauren is not getting back to me with the availability of her apartment. If they happen, these will be the only two appointments I make for the entire month, because it’s time to prepare for finals and I am now getting 100% more serious about studying.
This summer I am going to make as much money as possible. I hit $4K that one week, so I think $10K is a reasonable goal for this summer.
Since I’m not buying a car yet, that $3k has become my financial security. Every month I am going to start depositing a set amount of money in the bank to pay bills with, regardless of how much I made that month, and I’m going to use cash as much as possible. It gives me some wiggle room for months I don’t break even. I’m not living from week to week anymore!
I believe I’ve mentioned this already, but financial stability has done fucking wonders for my overall well being. I feel happier, more excited, and more confident. Or maybe that’s because spring is finally here? Now my only real stressors are getting into healthy habits, cleaning my house, and doing well in school. Speaking of which, I have an exam soon. Wish me luck!
Work Hard, Play Hard
This week I met with eleven(?) gentlemen, including one overnight. I made enough money to buy myself a theoretically decent car. One that’s 10 years old with 150,000 miles, probably, but I’m okay with that. Hopefully I can do that next weekend.
I can’t possibly recount all of my week, but here are some notable bits:
-During an outcall, my garter belt straps hung loose at my hips while I was riding my client, and the cat on his bed started to play with them.
-I did an appointment with my boyfriend. The client wanted to “share” me with another man, watch, and be watched. It went pretty alright. Except for the part where he repeatedly asked if I’d try fitting both of them in me at once. In the same place.
-Got to catch up with Glasses and have some fun time with him, no charge. It made my day much more bearable. Also, he brought me food :3
-Knees came to see me again. He brought me delicious chocolates, and later wrote me another wonderful review. I’m up to eight,. Which isn’t much, but I guess I don’t really need more right now.
-I had three(?) guys cancel.
-Had my first overnight with Third. It was pretty fun. He wants to do it again.
-I officially lost count of how many people I have had sex with, because I’ve slacked on my record-keeping the past few weeks. But I can definitely ballpark it between 40-45
The last two days of my week, I sequestered myself and recovered. I spent time with my boyfriend and doing enjoyable sorts of things.
Update
I have been seeing as many clients as possible this week because dammit I want to buy myself a car. They keep canceling on me, which is unfortunate, but I’ve been managing about two a day. As for the ones that have been seeing me, they are raving about me. They are even talking about making me “provider of the year” on the forums!
I hope this doesnt anger you, but was that the only time youd be posting photos of yourself?
Nah. I've previously posted photos of myself (just search my tumblr for 'pics' or 'photos'), and will post more in the future.
Woop.
The one night I forget to put my phone on silent, some asshole calls me at 4am. Who does that?
Anyway, thanks again to all of you who gave your input on my photos, you were a big help :)
thats sweet you gave him your url. he should feel special.
2/28/2013
Last week I saw a new client, a man I’ll call Buzz. With every new review someone would post of me, he became more and more interested in seeing me, and finally set a date to do so, despite living two hours away from me. Apparently he needed to “cross me off his bucket list.” He asked me to dress like a sexy secretary for our session.
It was a two hour session and it was pretty okay. I set some old standards playing in the background, and he brought out a bottle of champagne, a pack of cigarettes, and a tiny anal vibrator. We started off with lost of talking and a little touching, and transitioned to the usual stuff. He was uncomfortably large, but he didn’t take terribly long so I just tolerated it. The toy wasn’t really my thing either, but I didn’t mind using it for his sake. The champagne helped the time go by faster.
I received $550 for two hours of my time, left Lauren $25 for use of her apartment, and gave my roommate $25 for driving me.
Last week I ended up having much less free time than I anticipated. This has been happening a lot lately. I should probably give in at this point and accept the fact that school and work are the only things I have time for this semester.
But spring is approaching, so I’ll get to have fun then, right? I can’t possibly be busy that entire week…
Do you post the link to your escort page on tumblr? Or do you like to keep tumblr and your business separate?
I try to keep them separate. I don't want my clients to find out I'm writing about them.
Except Glasses, who I gave my URL to, and has had a peek at my writings. And maybe continues reading them. In which case, hello, and sorry I have been too busy to meet up :<
">I ask them for references Do you call the references to confirm? "Hello, this is a..."
">I ask them for references
Do you call the references to confirm?
"Hello, this is a hooker. Your friend/son/employee Anon wants to purchase my services because he is too sad of a person to get a real date. Can you confirm that he is a legit guy? Has he ever been known to strangle prostitutes and scatter their limbs, torso, and head over a wide area to hide the evidence?"
"- somebody who didn't understand how "references" pertain to the hobby
Pictures
I finally got the CD of the original shots from my photo shoot. Thank goodness, I can finally put up some pictures where I don’t look orange. (The photographer took the liberty of editing my photos to make me look tan, which were the only copies I’ve had until now.)
But now I have 200 photos to go through and decide on which are the best. Ugh. This is a task from hell for someone as indecisive as I am.
How many should I put up on my site? Ten? Twenty? Thirty?
Do you make yourself work out or eat healthy in order to be a certain size or weight that you and others find attractive? Or are you naturally gorgeous? Hope this didnt come out rude, Im just curious if you feel any pressure to look a certain way.
I am pretty happy with the way I look, and I don't try to change myself for my client's sake. I do try to eat well (which I am pretty good at) and exercise regularly (which I'm pretty bad at, aside from my daily bike commute), but that's just because I like feeling healthy. I don't feel pressure to look a certain way, but I do feel pressure to get into shape. I can't do a single push-up, and my endurance is awful. Unfortunately I just don't have the time for a regular exercise routine right now.
I have gone up two pant sizes in the last year, and it kind of sucks that I can't fit into most of my pants now. So there's that I guess. Still not sure why that's happened.
Also, I'm pretty sure there was a compliment in there, so thank you :3
What is the best verification method??
I'm not sure about "the best," I use a few different ones. I check guys out on verifyhim.com, and also ask for references (other providers they've seen). I ask to see if they are members of any websites or if they've written any reviews. If they're new to the hobby and haven't got any of that, I make them send me a photo, a copy of their driver's license, and provide me with their work number so I can call and ask to speak with (so-and-so).
What is a POT
I believe it stands for "pretty old thang." It's used a lot when referring to prospective sugar daddies.
Edit: Whoops, I'm wrong. It's just short for "potential," as in a potential client or sugar daddy. Thank you ladies for correcting me!
gunbeat: sexysadiewhathaveyoudone replied to your post: reading up about buddhism some more. it's...
sexysadiewhathaveyoudone replied to your post: reading up about buddhism some more. it's such a…
What kind of Buddhism are you interested in?i just googled the difference between theravada and mahayana buddhism and if i'm completely honest i think i've been researching more into theravada but i'm not entirely sure. could you enlighten me (that was punintentional) about the differences?
I’m not going to claim any sort of expertise on the matter… This page right here is really great, if you haven’t stumbled upon it already:
http://www.findingdulcinea.com/guides/Religion-and-Spirituality/Buddhism.pg_00.html
I personally appreciate Theravada Buddhism more, because the Mahayana (and Vajrayana, Zen, and most later forms of Buddhism,) venerate Gautama Buddha as a sort of deity, which I don’t think is what he would have wanted.
The cool thing about Buddhism is, you can be Buddhist in addition to another religion, or without being religious at all, and it doesn’t matter if you are theistic or atheistic. And that’s my unsolicited opinion for the day.
I have a guy who emails me everyday but refuses any type of verification and keeps asking for pictures of me but I don't send any face pictures until I have verified a client. Show i get a different email or just ignore him
I would see if you can block him or get his emails to go to your spam folder. No need to get new email, that will be a hassle for your other clients.
What do you say to a man who keeps telling you that he has more to lose than you??
Wait, what? "I have more to lose than you?" Is that what he's saying when you're trying to verify him? What a dick.
If it were me, I'd call him out on being an incredibly rude man, who can't make a judgement like that because he doesn't know a thing about me. I'd then point out the fact that I have reviews and have been verified on several websites, so if he doesn't feel safe giving me his information he is free to go see someone else.
But if you don't have reviews/verification then it's your word against his. Don't give in though, he should understand that you need to take safety precautions.
If I didn't understand your question correctly please let me know and I will try to answer more appropriately.
2/23/2013
This weekend I saw a man who I’ll call Smokes. This was his first time seeing a provider. He found me online and said he “didn’t want his first to be anyone else”. He’s got a couple ladies lined up for his trip to Vegas next week, too. He asked me to bring a number of outfits and toys, none of which we ever used. It was a two hour session and he had intended to go two or three times, but he was having trouble getting up again after the first, so it was a fairly easy and relaxed session with lots of chatting. He told me a bit about his one-at-a-time home growing operation, and he seemed to know his stuff, so it was neat to hear about. He was also one of my only clients thus far to notice I don’t actually live at my incall.
I received $550 for two hours of my time, left Lauren $25 for use of her apartment, and gave my roommate $25 for driving me.
Side notes: Despite having more spare time and less to do than usual, the state of my mental health is pretty awful this week. I feel unmotivated, overwhelmed, frustrated, irritable. I would really like to just hide under a blanket until I wither away. I don’t know what’s wrong with me.
Do you think you're going to do the florida thing? Is that safe?
Eh. Safety aside, since he tried to talk down my price in the same breath that he tried to have me spend more time with him, I'm thinking probably not.
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